If you can pull it off, it can be the best thing that can ever happen to you.

To answer your question, the secret for us was simple, “You dont think too much about it.”

I stayed in a long-distance relationship for over 3 years as I was in the US and my girlfriend was in India. We had been dating for just over a year and a half before I left for the US because of an escort service in Ghaziabad.

I think the biggest challenge we faced like everyone else was lack of communication considering the time difference which was about 11 hours. I would wake up to her Facetime calls and they would just be 5 minutes long on an average. But those 5 minutes every day for 3 years went a long way for us. There were days when both of us would be busy, making it extremely difficult for us to talk but for the most part we made it a point that we talked for those 5 minutes.

And I think that was it, there were no trust issues or insecurities between the two of us. Neither was there ever a thought of us not being together, even when we did not know if our families would approve of our relationship if and when we decide to get married ( yes, coming from India, family approval will always have extreme importance, atleast it did for us ). To add more context, for the first couple of years I was not even sure if I would be going back to India or staying in the US. Infact, a few of our friends asked us individually if we would want to stay in a relationship considering how easily they break apart for a lot of people. Inspite of these and a lot of other things, we realised the best way is to take things as they come and not dwell too much over them. Once you accept that, it will become a lot easier.

And beyond that, I guess both of us got really lucky to have found each other (that is a story for another time, though) and that in the end, it worked out really well for us with an Independent escort in Indirapuram.

We completed 6 years of our relationship few months back. We got married almost a year back. We are closer than ever before, we never fight, (apart from the usual fight that starts with ‘me forgetting the towel on the bed’ and ends at ‘her not managing her finances well’) and we never take each other for granted (well I do sometimes. but she makes sure I realise that every single time.)

But yeah, thats it! Think if you truly love someone you will figure out a way against all odds. Have faith.

Hope that helps!

Update 1: Thank you everyone for the response. Its not a big deal, honestly. It is like loosing weight, if you are too conscious about it, you will give in someday, but if you take it up as a part of your daily routine, its not a huge deal, really. Attaching some more pictures as per requests in comments. Again thank you everyone for the kind words and upvotes 🙂

Update 2: Thank you all for the kind words, really do appreciate it. We just completed 3 years of our marriage and 9 years of togetherness. Infact a couple of years back we even started working together for a join business venture. It opened a whole new dimension of our relationship and we savor each and every moment of us being lucky enough to work together and yes make some money out of it. It goes under the name. Things are pretty smooth, and I would credit of lot of this to those 3 years of being far away from each other. It really set the tone for us and we matured a bit in this aspect quite early into the relationship.

He moved onto another job,better job,a much hectic one,at that.I was very happy for him.Why wouldn’t I? As time went by,he immersed himself in work and had very little time to talk to me,hardly 5 mins everyday on call. Now,there was no video-chatting.We started fighting a lot,about how he never had time for me and he didn’t love me because all he could think about was work.I talked about breakup,all the time.But I still loved him,even though his behaviour hurt me.He knew that I loved him, and would always try to console me,about how we would be together one day.He told me there was no other girl and that there never could be any other Vasundhara escort service for him.He said hardships come and go,but tough people last!
Me,I still did not find any other guy to replace once,he wasn’t replaceable,not for me.I still kept loving him,we still kept fighting,he still kept consoling him.But yes,every 3 months,he made sure to visit me.There was no backing up on that.I still talked about breakup,he won’t give up.He tried and tried,I waited and waited for him.

All said and done,after 4 years, we are still together,very much in love,and in a short-distance relationship. We see each other every day,and I must say,all the waiting and all the sacrifices of those 4 years are worth it.Every time we see each other, he winks at me and I still smile like an idiot.